No judgment
Can we honestly say this? We all have judgments. We all have opinions. We were trained that way. I remember being in school learning to write and we had to write an opinion piece. I struggled with it. I never really had strong opinions about anything other than eating beets or wearing certain clothes before that time. Should we strive to not not judge others? We all know the saying, "only God can judge me." Yet, we are judged by the world every second of the day. When you step on a bus or walk down the street someone is judging you. Is judging fair? Forcing your opinions on other people's lives?
My environment is wearing me down. I know I am being judged and I in turn judge others harshly. Fear breeds contempt and I live in a community where in the millisecond your life can take a turn.
Yet, we continue to sweat the small stuff. When I was getting myself all bent out of shape because of my phone situation I had to talk to myself. I told myself that this is minor is the grand scheme of things. Why are you getting so upset over something that in 10 years won't matter.
I am being judged at work. I know the quality of my work, but if we are just looking at numbers are we using the data to really drive results or determine success. Have goals is necessary to move forward. Judging your success upon the completion of those goals is not being fair to yourself.
I am a goal oriented person. I am always setting goals, creating to do lists, creating vision boards, etc. Lately I haven't been hitting my targets. This doesn't mean that I am not making progress towards my goals. I will continue to stay faithful and focus on improving my life.
My goal is to move out of this city and move onto a different career path in 2012.
My environment is wearing me down. I know I am being judged and I in turn judge others harshly. Fear breeds contempt and I live in a community where in the millisecond your life can take a turn.
Yet, we continue to sweat the small stuff. When I was getting myself all bent out of shape because of my phone situation I had to talk to myself. I told myself that this is minor is the grand scheme of things. Why are you getting so upset over something that in 10 years won't matter.
I am being judged at work. I know the quality of my work, but if we are just looking at numbers are we using the data to really drive results or determine success. Have goals is necessary to move forward. Judging your success upon the completion of those goals is not being fair to yourself.
I am a goal oriented person. I am always setting goals, creating to do lists, creating vision boards, etc. Lately I haven't been hitting my targets. This doesn't mean that I am not making progress towards my goals. I will continue to stay faithful and focus on improving my life.
My goal is to move out of this city and move onto a different career path in 2012.
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