It took me over 30 years to finally learn that the key to having a successful relationship is communication. I've been giving a lot of thought about reuniting with the star. As I said, we've been staying in contact and I think we both have unresolved feelings for each other. Here is where I feel we went wrong...he kept trying to figure out what we were doing and I kept blowing him off. I wouldn't open up, I wouldn't talk about my wants or needs with him. Wrong, wrong, wrong! I stumbled on this post about men who won't put a title on relationships. It caught my attention because a friend is caught up in the undefined zone right now. This has never been a problem for me because I've never asked for anything. I've never wanted a title, ring, etc. Toward the end of the relationship with the star I did want something more with him. He may have sensed that, hence he disappeared. In our recent phone conversations I get the feeling that he wants to pick up wh...